2026-05-04
"Hurry up" had become my whole morning vocabulary
Three rounds of 'hurry up!' before 7:45 every morning. When the morning routine isn't moving, TodoGatya lets the kid draw the next task themselves — and the self-determination piece cuts the nagging in half.
2026-05-11
Remembering to rememberNew
Wrote a to-do list for the kid. The kid forgets to look at the list. A note on workplace schedulers, presupposition questions, and working memory research — and what's actually going on with kid memory.
2026-05-08
"Did it" and "done" are not the same thingNew
'Brush your teeth' — 'I did it' — 'you're literally just holding the toothbrush in your mouth.' The kid's 'I did it' and the parent's 'done' are different things. Same structure as a requirements-vs-implementation gap at work.