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Posts tagged “Words to kids”

"What should I even say?" — how changing a single phrase shifted the air at home.

2026-05-04
Kid won't get ready in the morning? We stopped nagging and put the routine in a gacha
When your kid won't get ready in the morning and you're on your third 'hurry up!' before 7:45 — TodoGatya lets the kid draw the next task in the morning routine themselves, and the self-determination piece cuts the nagging in half.
2026-06-02
"I've got it, stop telling me" — a to-do bingo board for the kid who refuses to be told
My kid won't get ready in the morning, but the second I say anything it's 'I've got it, stop telling me.' Todo Bingo puts the tasks on a board and lets him pick the order. How we use the center square and a summer-homework calendar, from our actual house.
2026-06-04
"How many more?" — a visual schedule board for the kid who can't see the day ahead
My kid asks 'how many more?' every 30 seconds all morning. TodoLadders turns the day into a visual schedule board he can read himself — plus a way to break 'do your homework' into steps small enough that nothing stalls out.
2026-06-02
"I'll start fresh Monday" — a habit tracker for kids who quit after missing one day
Piano, math sheets, sight words. My kid skips a couple days and tries to throw the whole streak out. TodoFarm logs what he actually did, not a yes/no — 5 minutes counts as 5 minutes, and a zero day doesn't erase the past. A habit tracker for kids built to break the all-or-nothing mindset.
2026-06-05
"You said ten times for game time" — a reward-tracking passbook app for kids
My kid hits me with 'ten worksheets for game time, remember?' and I genuinely cannot remember if I said it. TodoBank is a reward-tracking app for kids: the deal lives in a passbook instead of my memory, 'three more to go' shows up as a balance, and on a low-energy day the balance covers it.
2026-06-06
Set a timer, start a fight — a visual timer for kids who melt down when time's up
The longest part of any timer in our house is after it goes off. PlanetLoopTimer is a visual timer for kids where the break is something the kid launches himself — a planet around the sun, no number ticking down against his will — so the end is one he actually agreed to. My script went from 'time's up' to 'Mercury or Neptune?'
2026-08-11
"No way I can do all that!" — summer homework that won't get done, a wall of Post-its, and TodoBingoNew
Summer homework wasn't getting done, so I cut all of it into TodoBingo squares and taped the whole summer to the wall. A month's plan finished in two weeks.
2026-06-22
The paradox of choice in parenting — why "pick whatever you want" froze my kid
Closet open, kid frozen for three minutes. "Just pick something." Iyengar & Lepper's 2000 jam study (24 options vs 6) explains it. Why narrowing choices got him moving — and why the same logic runs through our Todo apps and the way I scope projects at work.
2026-05-11
My kid forgets to even look at the list — working memory and remembering to remember
My kid forgets to even look at the to-do list I wrote for him. A note on workplace schedulers, presupposition questions, and working memory research — and what's actually going on with kid memory.
2026-05-08
My kid says "I did it" when he didn't — "did it" and "done" are different things
'Brush your teeth' — 'I did it' — 'you're literally just holding the toothbrush in your mouth.' The kid's 'I did it' and the parent's 'done' are different things. Same structure as a requirements-vs-implementation gap at work.